I happened to hear this conversation a few months ago
Guy: Hey .. You know what ? A guy had asked me about you last day .. He found your new pic quite attractive..
Girl: Wow! Is it? What did you tell him then?
Guy: I asked him not to look beneath your neck coz you are a fatso!!! Hehe..
Mann!
He was laughing like hell. The moment I heard this, I turned around to check
him out. I laughed!!! He was talking as if he resembled shah rukh khan. How
sick!! I couldn't stand it any longer so i walked out. Later i felt ashamed of
simply staying numb. How would she be
feeling? Wouldn't she be hearing the same dialogues even when she is so
gorgeous ? Maybe her spirits would have risen when he told her what the other
guy had said to him. She might have cried later.. Well who cares ! Just because
she was plumpy by nature, she just ought to be criticized na? Her beauty,
kindness, intellect nothing else matters. All that matters is her being a fatso
and that bloody right of all lean ones to make fun upon that! Now I said about
a girl being bullied for being fat .. But later I realized, being slim is also
a factor to be bullied. Last day one of my friend was being bullied by his
closest friend.. " hey just look at you.. i could use you as a
toothpick!!". And guess what? The guy who bullied him wouldn't be even
half an inch fatter than him!! Lol.. The guy couldn't see anything else in him
but the fact that he was slimmer than usual! After all those years of staying
by his friend, supporting him in anything and everything.. This is what he
gets! And I'm glad that I didn't shut myself up then. Maybe bullying is
something that doesn't have rules. But it surely has same after effects in
whoever is being criticized. No matter how good or how glamorous he/she is,
bullying effects their confidence, their happiness .. And the people who bully proves their weakness, not their strength. If God has given you an
over all perfect figure, it is not your license to comment on others'
weaknesses. See the beauty! Appreciate! After all what do we lose?
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